A Good And Perfect Gift: An Adoption Aid Story
Hello December 10th, 2018
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The story of the Carrete family’s journey in adopting Tomas is such a beautiful representation of God’s love and faithfulness. Tomas’ mom, Bonnie, tells the amazing story below from her perspective as his mother. Her story touched our hearts and reminded us of James 1:17 – “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.”…
“The decision and preparation for our family to adopt took many years, but the process itself took just over 15 months. After 2 biological children, my husband - Angel - and I decided to stop talking about possibly adopting one day and started actively pursuing it. We believe, as God’s word says, that children are a gift from God (Psalm 127:3-5) and we deeply desired to grow our family through adoption.
Our decision to adopt began in 2011, shortly after our first child was born. We spent the following years researching adoption agencies, following adoption blogs, listening to podcasts about adopting and fostering in faith, and watching “Welcome Home” videos on YouTube. Every few months we would scroll through the numerous lists of waiting children on various websites. God was working in our hearts, showing us the need. God’s word shows His deep love for the most vulnerable: widows, orphans, and the fatherless. We also know that our God reconciles, heals, and restores that which is broken. The notion of adoption, of bringing vulnerable children into a loving family and a safe home, is God’s idea. Seven years before we would bring home our adopted son and two years before he was even born, God was preparing us to become Tomas’s parents.
In June of 2017 we sent in our application to the Eurasia Team at Lifeline Children’s Services. This began months of phone calls and interviews, training sessions to attend, books and articles to read. We went through every check list and began to ensure all of the requirements were met. While the paperwork seemed time consuming and daunting, the financial requirements seemed impossible. A verse a college roommate often quoted continually popped into my mind when the cost appeared overwhelming, “For every beast of the forest is mine, the cattle on a thousand hills” (Psalm 50:10). When what lay ahead of us felt like too much, the Spirit would remind me of the truth: God owns it all and there is nothing too great for Him.
We are so happy to have Tomas in our family. He is a joy and a delight. The road of adoption has not always been clear and easy, but God has remained faithful through it all. Thank you for helping us to bring our son home. Please know we are incredibly grateful. To God be the Glory!"
Love, The Carrete Family